What qualities are you looking for in a partner?
To all you young and perhaps not so young men and women who are searching for a partner in life, preparing a ‘Must Be/Must Have’ list may bring you some clarity and insight that will certainly help you on your quest.
Here are just a few qualities to consider. By no means stop here. Your list will evolve as you evolve.
1. Respectful
2. Honest
3. Loyal
4. My best friend
5. A sense of humor
6. Tolerant
7. A good listener
8. Supportive of my needs
9. My biggest fan
10. Fun to be around
11. Good parenting qualities
12. Integrity
13. Patience
14. Hard working
15. Passionate
16. Able to “not sweat the small stuff”
17. Willing to compromise
18. Time for me
19. Open and willing to communicate
20. Friends with my friends
21. Qualities that make me feel at ease
22. Humility
23. A love of animals
24. A love of travel
25. Athletic
26. Ambitious
27. Smart
28. Attractive to me
29. Strong family values
30. A good money manager
31. Kind and generous
32. ………………………….Etc.
Here’s another question for you, “Which of these qualities are you proud to own?”
~Lesia S.
By fc on Feb 9, 2009
i saw your list on what you mgiht want in a partner. what happens if i were to put faithful on the list. does that mean there’s something wrong with me. it’s the #1 thing i want from someone now that i’ve been cheated on twice. am i picking the wrong person, or am i sending out some weird vibe that says “cheat on me”? Thx FC
By Lesia, Your Truepath Coach on Feb 12, 2009
Thank you for sharing fc.
The ‘list’ that you come up with and how you prioritize it, is yours. Only you know what you need from a relationship, true? Your heart doesn’t lie. When you honour your personal values, you attract what will satisfy them. Faithfulness is one of your personal values. What other personal values need to be honoured? Know yourself, love yourself and the right person will come into your life.
Take care, LS